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Camilla Poesio Events
The wedding vows are one of the most emotional moments of a wedding—especially at a romantic Italian wedding. It's the moment when you tell each other in your own words what you feel, what connects you, and what you hope for your future together. But how do you write the wedding vows?
In this article, you will learn step by step how to write your wedding vows - with tips, examples and creative suggestions to help you find the right words.
Especially at a destination wedding in Italy, the wedding vows are often the emotional highlight of the ceremony. Between olive trees, Tuscan hills or on the beach, your love becomes a tangible story.
A personal wedding vow makes your wedding ceremony something unique - whether civil, free or church. It brings your individual story into the ceremony and gives your guests the feeling of being very close to you.
How do you write your wedding vows? I answer this question in this article.
Many couples underestimate how much time it takes to formulate a wedding vow. Our tip: start at least four to six weeks before the wedding. This leaves enough time to think, write and revise - and also to practise.
Plan some quiet moments away from the wedding stress. Particularly lovely: an afternoon in a café or a walk at sunset.
What should I say? – Questions for inspiration
A well-structured wedding vow helps you express your thoughts clearly. These questions can guide you in organizing your ideas and putting them into words.
How did you meet? What did you think when you first saw him or her?
What defines your relationship? Which small or big things do you love most about your partner?
What are you grateful for? Which moments have shaped your relationship?
When did you know: This is the person I want to grow old with?
What do you admire most about your partner?
What have you gone through together – and what have you learned from it?
What do you promise? Here comes the actual “vow” – loving, specific, and honest.
Looking to the future: What do you wish for your life together?
Be honest and be yourself.
Speak in your own language - don't use phrases that don't suit you.
Use images and emotions.
Talk about shared experiences.
Practice out loud - this helps with fine-tuning.
No exaggerated jokes - humor is good, but not at the expense of feelings.
Avoid too many clichés or sayings from the Internet.
Not a novel - stick to the recommended length.
Avoid insider stories that only you understand - your guests should be able to follow you.
Many couples ask themselves: do we write our wedding vows together or separately? Both have their advantages and disadvantages:
Write separately: This will keep the surprise alive during the ceremony. Your words flow directly from the heart - without consultation.
Write together: This gives you the opportunity to coordinate the style and length.
At a wedding in Italy, there is often an international audience. Consider whether you want to repeat your vows in German (or English) – or at least include a sentence in another language. This is a lovely gesture for your guests.
And if you need support: many celebrants in Italy are happy to help with translations or with wording your vows.
For inspiration, here are a few sentences you can customize:
“I promise to choose you every day – with all your strengths and quirks.”
“With you by my side, the world feels lighter.”
“Thank you for loving me as I am – and for always reminding me who I can be.”
“I want to be your home, your support, your biggest fan – today, tomorrow, and all our days to come.”
Some people find it difficult to put their feelings into words. No problem - you're not alone. You're also asking yourself the question: How do you write your wedding vows? If you want, I can give you some support:
As a wedding planner in Italy, I often help my couples to do just that - because the wedding vows are not a compulsory part of the wedding, but a gift to each other.
Your wedding vows don't have to be perfect - they have to be honest. It can stutter, it can tremble, it can bring tears to your eyes. Because that's what makes it so special. Whether on a terrace with a view of Tuscany or in an antique palazzo in Florence: you won't find the right words in your head, but in your heart.
